- You talk to your spouse as if you are reading minutes of a meeting
- You believe that all actionable points are to be handled by someone else and you are there to give direction / guidance
- You feel that home is where you have dinner (occasionaly) and sleep (much like a Hotel)
- Your biggest contribution is financial assistance & you believe that your role is limited to whatever that can be bought and anything else is someone else's responsibility
- You can be reached by your family only after min 5 attempts at your various phones
- Your standard answer if they ever reach you is that you are in a very important meeting and you will get back (since all meetings are 'very important' meetings)
- You find it hard to change tone (talking to subordinates and talking to family)
- You firmly believe that all plans are to be made keeping your schedule in mind (which is anyways subject to change any minute)
- You would rather check your mails on blackberry / chat on google talk than have a word with family
- You believe everyone should agree with everything you say because people generally agree with you in office (certainly the subordinates)
And these are just some of the indicators.
3 comments:
here i go again...with the gyaan session...
There is always other side to the story ...which you should not ignore!always in such situations when u think the other person is going wrong,put yourself in his shoes and look at what you are doing...you may just find something worth a change even in you...
I am sure there is another side of the story.. I have been considering that story for many years now.. to a large extent I have been supporting that story..
I am also not saying anyone is wrong.. I am just saying for someone the priorities have changed substantially.. while I am still tangled in the time wrap..
Plus.. there is also my side of the story.. only if u thought it worthwhile to listen to that..
came across your blog. you write well. insightful and sensitive. hopefully you are in happier times now
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